First Date Rules!

First Date Rules
1. DO talk about religion and politics.
I don't mind taking about religion or politics, I think it's interesting and a good way to learn about someone. If it turns into an argument or you really disagree with each other, no biggie, you can move on. I think most rational adults should be able to have a casual conversation on these topics without getting too heated. You may also find out if you are dating a NUT!

Don't sidestep potentially touchy subjects — a chat about the day's biggest headlines can lead to a passionate discussion or a fired-up debate, both of which can make sparks fly. (Can we say heated sex!) And what better way to show off your smarts? If you feel like you're getting into dangerous territory, propose that you agree to disagree ... and continue the discussion on date #2. (If there is one)

2. DON'T talk about your ex.
Talking about your ex-boyfriends or girlfriends ...it will kill any chances of a second date.
Airing your dirty laundry will only make you seem insecure at best ... petty and a little crazy at worst.

3. DO keep it present-tense.
Just talk about what you're doing now, what you're looking forward to, and what your goals are for the future.

Don't dwell on the past! Talk about what excites you about the future, whether it's next weekend's movie release or your long-term career plans. Everyone has a past, but focusing on the future makes you seem like a positive, happy person — an instant draw when you're chatting up someone you're interested in.

4. DON'T just talk — listen.
Express interest and curiosity in what the other person has to say. Treat him/her as though he/she is someone with whom you'd like to be a good friend. The bonus? This gives you a great deal of information. If you expend a great deal of time, effort, and attention getting to know this person, and it does little or nothing for you, then it probably won't do a whole lot for you down the line.